I sim­ply can’t com­pete with a damsel in dis­tress! Note to all you guys: You can’t save a damsel if she LOVES her dis­tress! Def­i­n­i­tion: The help­less­ness of the damsel in dis­tress, who can be por­trayed as naive, young along with her need for others(mostly men) to res­cue her.
Is it that guys like to play hero? Do they need to find woman to res­cue so they can assume the “knight in shin­ing armor” role? Does it make them feel masculine…or just needed. Who doesn’t like to feel needed and appre­ci­ated?
You might be a damsel
…if you need a man to save you.
…if you feel depressed when you are sin­gle.
…if you dump a guy and have another lined up.
…if you are not happy with­out a man.
…if you have a strong need to have chil­dren — maybe they’ll stick around

Some men like needy women because men like to FIX things. So they look at this poor pathetic mess of a woman and fig­ure they can make it all bet­ter and she’s just been with the wrong men. When real­ity is that she prob­a­bly made some poor choices and it may not be totally the men in her life that were at fault.

So as I was research­ing this info from the internet(which has to be true right? LOL) it tells me that since I am mar­ried to an aries I should:
Let Him Res­cue YouAries men are chival­rous at heart; they love noth­ing more than to find a damsel in dis­tress to res­cue. Give an Aries man some­thing to do, then lav­ish him with praise when he comes through to save you. Then find another way for him to prove his worth; Aries thrives on meet­ing the needs of oth­ers and being praised for it.
Guess I can’t com­pete with one…I just have to be one. LOL

I am amazed at how much can hap­pen in 16 years, and how quickly it can all roll by!
Lit­tle his­tory on how we met: We were both work­ing at Golden Cor­ral, he was a cook and I was a server. I thought he looked like the guy on The Princess Bride. I got the nerve to ask him if he saw the movie and all he said was, “NO!” and went along his merry way. So that was that. I think the next day I called in to go to Sea World and he had thought I quit. When he found that I didn’t quit he told me he would like to see the movie with me. While we were watch­ing the movie at my apart­ment, we held hands. He was the sweet­est guy and still is! On our first offi­cial date, his cat knocked his phone off the hook…yeah he had one of those! LOL and his alarm clock didn’t go off — that was his way of say­ing he didn’t want to go the Bay­lor vs. Rice Foot­ball game. ;) We ended up going to a movie and he had to call in and let the boss know he was going to be a bit late. It turned out to be like a three hour movie! I fell in Love!
A suc­cess­ful mar­riage requires falling in love many times, always with the same per­son. ~Mignon McLaugh­lin
I am falling in love with you all over again and I intend to a ton more times. Love you — You’re the best!!